9 maheene ke lambe intajaar ke baad aakhirakaar aapake jigar ka tukada, aapaka shishu aapakee god mein aa gaya aur aapake painratahud kee shuruaat ho gaee hai. apane bachche ke svaagat ko lekar aap behad utsaahit honge aur jald hee apane navajaat shishu ke saath taim injoy karane lag jaenge. lekin aapako yah samajhana hoga ki apane shishu ke janm ke shuruaatee kuchh ghante, kuchh din, kuchh haphte aur kuchh maheene aapako pooree tarah se vyast rakhane vaale honge aur is dauraan aapako bahut saara kaam karana hoga. aapako aisa bhee mahasoos ho sakata hai ki itanee saaree keyar kee vajah se aapaka shishu bahut tej gati se badh raha hai, khaasakar tab jab aap nae pairants hon. aapane preganensee ke dauraan navajaat shishu se judee klaasej lee hon ya nahin, jameenee hakeekat yahee hai ki shishu ke janm ke baad aapako usakee jarooraton ko poora karana hoga, usaka pet bharana hoga, usakee saaph-saphaee karanee hogee, use sulaana hoga aur har vakt shishu ka dhyaan rakhana hoga. lihaaja behad jarooree hai ki aap apane shishu ke aagaman ko lekar taiyaar rahen. janm ke baad pahale ghante mein shishu aur maan ke beech skin-too-skin kontaikt hona jarooree hai isalie aavashyak hai ki aap doktar se kahen ki vah aapako apane shishu ke saath hee rakhen. is samay se hee aapako yah baat achchhee tarah se samajh lenee chaahie ki shishu ko sambhaalane kee jimmedaaree akele maan kee nahin hai balki pita kee bhee utanee hee hai. nae pairants ko ekstra saport kee bhee jaroorat hotee hai. aise mein agar aap ped nars (nainee) ka kharch nahin utha sakate to aapake lie jarooree hoga ki aap shishu ke daada-daadee ya naana-naanee (graind pairants) ya phir kisee rishtedaar kee madad len. lihaaja maan aur shishu jab prasav ke baad aspataal mein hain tabhee aapako kuchh jarooree moolabhoot cheejon ke baare mein seekh lena hoga. aspataal mein maujood nars aapako yah sikha sakatee hain ki aakhir shishu janm ke baad shuruaatee 24 ghante mein kyon rote hain, shishu ko sahee tareeke se god mein kaise uthaana hai aur shishu ko brestapheed karaate vakt apane brest se kaise jodana hai (laiching). shishu ke janm ke turant baad kisee peediyaatrishan se bhee judana achchha rahega taaki agar aapako paraamarsh kee jaroorat ho ya koee aapaatakaaleen sthiti ho jae to aap shishu ko doktar ke paas le jaen. ab baaree hai teekaakaran kee to janm ke baad aapake shishu ko aspataal mein hee hepetaitis bee aur beeseejee ka barth short diya jaega taaki use hepetaitis aur teebee jaisee beemaariyon se surakshit rakha ja sake. aspataal mein maujood medikal staaph kaee doosare metriks ke saath-saath shishu kee tvacha ka rang-roop, aakaar aur maansapeshiyon kee rangat bhee dekhate hain taaki shishu ke apagaar skor mein use shaamil kiya ja sake. shishu kee saaph-saphaee kaise karanee hai aur use doodh kab aur kis tarah se pilaana hai, isake saath-saath maata-pita ko is baat par bhee najar rakhanee chaahie ki shishu mein kisee chhotee-motee ya gambheer beemaaree ke lakshan to najar nahin aa rahe. aapako pata hona chaahie ki shishu ke shareer ka taapamaan kaise naapana hai, agar shishu ko bukhaar ho ya pet kharaab ho to kya karana hai aur agar shishu jyaada ro raha ho to use chup kaise karaana hai. in sabake atirikt aapako aakasmik navajaat mrtyu sindrom (sids) jaisee gambheer jatilataon ke baare mein bhee pata hona chaahie kyonki jab tak shishu 12 se 18 maheene ka nahin ho jaata tab tak sids ka khatara bana rahata hai.
